Spending the first few years of my career in the world of traditional weddings gave me a unique lens to bring to elopements: one that showed me just how limiting that space can be, at the expense of a couple's experience. It's a world where the status quo is to cram as many people, activities, and experiences as possible into an extremely narrow window of time. Where deviating from the factory line of traditions is met with objections and skepticism.
There was very little room for couples to feel completely free to bring their own selves, worldview, and vision into their wedding day. Sure, they were choosing their own napkin colors and DJs, but it felt like the equivalent of musical chairs: the container never changed. The couple never fully got to leave their mark; each wedding day was just one in a long line of others. And that was what I hated most.
I live and run my business as inclusively as possible: I respect your pronouns, am extremely mindful to use non-gendered language, and use non-gendered posing direction.
Experience working with people from all walks of life in this way means I know exactly how to create the space you need to experience your elopement authentically.
With that said, I do not tolerate anything less than the same respect and love for other human beings from my couples. Bigots and those with intolerance of inclusivity and equity (not the same as equality) have no place here. If you find yourself in that space, I'm confident you will find the right photographer for you, as I know there truly are wedding vendors for every type of couple -- as the saying goes, a lid for every pot. Please send me an email simply saying that we're not the best fit, and I will wish you nothing but the best in your search!
Many of my absolute favorite experiences and memories happened in those dreamy landscapes, which is why I'm such a huge proponent of eloping outside. Nature connects us; to each other, and the world.
Where do you feel most alive?
The ocean? Forest? Mountains? Somewhere brand new?
Many of my absolute favorite experiences and memories happened in those dreamy landscapes, which is why I'm such a huge proponent of eloping outside. Nature connects us; to each other, and the world.
The ocean? Forest? Mountains? Somewhere brand new?
Choosing to get married under these sacred trees was one of the most "us" things we did, and that's how I want you to feel about the place you choose for your elopement.
(we walked down the aisle together!)
Choosing to get married under these sacred trees was one of the most "us" things we did, and that's how I want you to feel about the place you choose for your elopement.
( we walked down the aisle together!)
I love helping my couples create their unforgettable wedding day in the dreamiest place our mutual imaginations can conjure up.
Not only have I walked through planning my own dream intimate wedding, but I've also helped dozens of my couples do the same. Engaging my digital sleuthing skills for your elopement is one of my favorite things to do.
- Jill & Shay, 2021 couple